The One......
Have you ever wondered about finding the one? Your One. The one person on the planet destined to own you and for you to own and end up with Forever. For life . I mean ya growing up we read of these fairytale stories, watch these happily ever after ending movies see these happy ending instances around us and it’s maybe even human enough to dream or rather imagine/picture/wish for/hope for probably even pray that you meet that special someone, go all out and make a complete fool of yourself doing everything you possibly can taking so much pain and effort to win her (or him) over and have that miracle happen to you by making that special some yours to keep for all eternity-to make them smile.. laugh.. be there when they cry.. hold them.. have them as your strength and support… and end up Happy- making dreams come true, having good happen to yourself and treasuring those moments.
But in reality life and love aren’t as sweet or picture perfect as we would like for them to be and if it did happen that one first time if it worked if it lasted and is lasting, well that’s a special and you are damn lucky - Do everything you possibly can do to hang on to it. Always…cause it’s more than worth it. I-for my part, have seen enough breakups, crush’s and conflicts to myself and to others that I know. And have been through hard enough times to be tempted to give up and lose heart. But then again, I believe in faith and destiny and yet let that hope live inside me that my special someone is out there waiting and will let me find her at the right time.
Finding that Special Someone, Your One- isn’t something that should hold you back from making a life for yourself or letting it rule you. It’s about making the mistake of miserably failing, wrong choices and learning on from them and discovering yourself and what you want. It’s about letting go of the old and moving on with the new-the better. I for one believe that when a person likes another they do so no matter what. The biggest mistakes will seem forgivable and insignificant. But if they don’t like a person well than they just don’t – no matter what that person may try to say or do to remove that dislike and well – the smallest innocent slip-up will seem deliberate and unforgivable.
True love-i think, is about holding on to something amazing for every second while it lasted,, remembering those precious moments.. learning from the bad.. letting go of the most difficult and fighting on to stay strong. To me, its about growing up, learning life.. being in control and having the faith and confidence in yourself to make yourself happy no matter what that takes. It's about Hope and about Belief. It's about remembering those moments, holding on to those good memories and learning from the bad. Love is about Mystery, Faith and Knowing what you have is special enough to want for it to last.
It doesn't really have to be said or expressed so long as it can b felt by both. And it can be felt in the simplest of ways- just by waking up with a smile on the face knowing, staring into each others eyes meaninglessly or just talking all-night and not realising it.
Finding the one is therfore not just about going out there and looking but simply about waiting... knowing she/he is out there and Waiting..
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This post comes a little late even though i typed it out long back, just now got around to finishing it and posting. Somehow never got around to ending it right but i figured will post it anyway. Reminds me that i should really complete stuff i start writing then and there cause it gets too old to post sometimes. I am sorry that it came out kinda long and serious-like. v-day special-not too happy with it but wil relate back to it later in full...when i feel like. (-Post To Be Completed Later-)
But in reality life and love aren’t as sweet or picture perfect as we would like for them to be and if it did happen that one first time if it worked if it lasted and is lasting, well that’s a special and you are damn lucky - Do everything you possibly can do to hang on to it. Always…cause it’s more than worth it. I-for my part, have seen enough breakups, crush’s and conflicts to myself and to others that I know. And have been through hard enough times to be tempted to give up and lose heart. But then again, I believe in faith and destiny and yet let that hope live inside me that my special someone is out there waiting and will let me find her at the right time.
Finding that Special Someone, Your One- isn’t something that should hold you back from making a life for yourself or letting it rule you. It’s about making the mistake of miserably failing, wrong choices and learning on from them and discovering yourself and what you want. It’s about letting go of the old and moving on with the new-the better. I for one believe that when a person likes another they do so no matter what. The biggest mistakes will seem forgivable and insignificant. But if they don’t like a person well than they just don’t – no matter what that person may try to say or do to remove that dislike and well – the smallest innocent slip-up will seem deliberate and unforgivable.
True love-i think, is about holding on to something amazing for every second while it lasted,, remembering those precious moments.. learning from the bad.. letting go of the most difficult and fighting on to stay strong. To me, its about growing up, learning life.. being in control and having the faith and confidence in yourself to make yourself happy no matter what that takes. It's about Hope and about Belief. It's about remembering those moments, holding on to those good memories and learning from the bad. Love is about Mystery, Faith and Knowing what you have is special enough to want for it to last.
It doesn't really have to be said or expressed so long as it can b felt by both. And it can be felt in the simplest of ways- just by waking up with a smile on the face knowing, staring into each others eyes meaninglessly or just talking all-night and not realising it.
Finding the one is therfore not just about going out there and looking but simply about waiting... knowing she/he is out there and Waiting..
-! ! ! ! !-
This post comes a little late even though i typed it out long back, just now got around to finishing it and posting. Somehow never got around to ending it right but i figured will post it anyway. Reminds me that i should really complete stuff i start writing then and there cause it gets too old to post sometimes. I am sorry that it came out kinda long and serious-like. v-day special-not too happy with it but wil relate back to it later in full...when i feel like. (-Post To Be Completed Later-)
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